Sept. 4, 2025
U Need FRIES with That: Play explores sex, consent and relationships
Every fall, thousands of new U91快色 students are welcomed to campus at New Student Orientation: a two-day event that helps students settle into the campus community, build friendships and navigate university life. An important aspect in managing these changes is the ability to have conversations about healthy relationships, consent and community.
Now in its second year of production, U Need FRIES with That explores the topics of consent, relationships and communication through an engaging, story-driven format that resonates deeply with students. The play also weaves in key campus supports鈥攕uch as Campus Safewalk, the U91快色 Recovery Community (UCRC), the Student Conduct Office, and the Sexual and Gender-Based Violence Prevention and Support Office (SGBVPSO)鈥攅nsuring students leave not only entertained but also aware of the resources available to them.
Engaging students through story
Written in 2024, by U91快色 MFA student Maxim Vinogradov, U Need FRIES with That replaces a previous orientation play that was suspended during the pandemic. It tells the story of four students navigating challenges such as setting roommate boundaries, leaving a controlling relationship and learning to roll with rejection. By presenting these scenarios through characters鈥 growth and discovery, the play models what healthy boundaries and consent can look like in everyday life.
鈥淚t was really fun and I was literally paying attention the whole time. Honestly, I would prefer this [format] over having to read something,鈥 says Vreanna Beeler, a first-year student.
鈥淚 liked how they gave examples of why you would need to use those services. And it felt like a good way to show how you can help someone who might be going through something similar [to the play鈥檚 characters],鈥 adds Petia Pynadath, a first-year student.
Making consent memorable
The title鈥檚 acronym, FRIES, represents some of the core tenets of consent: Freely-given; Reversible; Informed; Engaged; and Specific. It provides students with a clear, memorable framework for understanding consent.
鈥淚 think folks really engage with a story and a narrative. That鈥檚 why we go to the movies or read books[鈥 we want to hear people鈥檚 stories and see our own experiences reflected back to us,鈥 explains Paula Russel, Manager, SGBVPSO.
With over 10 years of experience in consent education, Russel emphasizes that learning through example is what makes the production so effective. 鈥淸In the play], we can actually see different methods that people can ask for consent in ways that aren鈥檛 awkward, that are normalized and also part of regular interactions.鈥
Information about accessing the Student Conduct Office is shown on screen while it is being mentioned within the play.
Creating opportunities for students
Beyond raising awareness, U Need FRIES with That also provides paid opportunities for students in theatre-related fields to gain experience while contributing to campus wellness.
This year鈥檚 production was directed by , an MFA Drama student specializing in directing, alongside Faculty of Arts students Sunny Bao (assistant director), Lucas Tang (stage manager) and a cast of four undergraduate student actors.
鈥淐onsent is such an important part of our lives, and it doesn鈥檛 have to be an extreme or scary thing to bring up,鈥 says Buchanan. 鈥淓ach actor brings their own unique journey as an undergrad 鈥 and that鈥檚 what will make the play authentic. Next year, it will be a completely different production because there will be a new director and cast, each with their own perspective.鈥
From left to right, Faculty of Arts undergraduate student actors Nihkat Saheb and Sylviane Allard work with Master of Fine Arts student director Jessica Buchanan in a rehearsal.
Mia Fortier
Funded by the Students鈥 Union Quality Money Program and delivered in partnership with the Sexual and Gender-Based Violence Prevention and Support Office, U Need FRIES with That has become a mainstay of New Student Orientation, engaging students through performance-based learning that sparks meaningful conversations about consent and highlights the support network that helps create a safe, open campus environment.
The Sexual and Gender-Based Violence Prevention and Support Office (SGBVPSO), part of Student Experience and Support, provides a safe, confidential and non-judgmental space for students, faculty and staff. The office offers guidance, resources and connections to campus supports for anyone with questions about consent, relationships or experiences of sexual and gender-based violence.
- MacEwan Student Centre, MSC 488
- Hours: 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. most days
- Appointments and inquiries: svsa@ucalgary.ca